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The Leader’s Paradox: Why Doing Less Is the Hardest Thing You’ll Ever Do

- Venkataraman Subramanyan

Not long ago, I posed one question to a group of senior leaders at the start of a workshop.

And the room went silent after that.

“How would you generate 20% more impact next quarter without adding a single hour to your week?”

When responses finally came, they were predictable.

“Our teams are running at capacity.”

“Every initiative on our plate has a purpose.”

“This is the nature of leadership at this level.”

I’ve facilitated these sessions across some of the world’s largest organizations.

The hesitation is never unique, and it almost always points to the same blind spot.

So I introduced an exercise I call Subtract Every Quarter – a structured, three-quarter reflection where leaders examine:

→ Where their presence has become a habit rather than a contribution.

→ Which decisions they are holding onto that their teams are ready to own.

→ Which responsibilities they continue to carry simply because they are good at them, not because those tasks genuinely require them.

What emerged next was revealing.

The resistance wasn’t about effort or intent. It was far more personal than that.

For many leaders, stepping back felt like stepping away from who they are. Their involvement had become their identity. And the thought of letting go triggered something deeper than discomfort, it triggered doubt.

This is what I call the expert’s trap.

“No one on my team will handle this the way I would.”

“The fastest path is just doing it myself.”

The very competence that once set these leaders apart had quietly become the ceiling above their teams.

What Changed in the Room

About halfway through the exercise, I noticed a shift in energy.

Leaders stopped defending their calendars and started questioning them.

The realization surfacing was not about the risk of delegation. It was about the cost of perpetual ownership.

Holding on tightly today has a price and that price is paid tomorrow, in missed opportunities to lead at a higher altitude.

The leaders who multiply their impact don’t work harder. They extend their trust further.

So, multiplication requires trust, not heroics.

Across many such workshops, a consistent pattern holds:

Most senior leaders have the capacity to reclaim roughly one full productive day each week by consciously releasing low-return meetings, outdated responsibilities, and decisions that belong further down the organization.

When that time is reclaimed, it gets redirected toward:

→ Developing the next layer of leadership.

→ Strategic thinking that only they can do.

→ The small set of high-leverage priorities that truly move the needle.

The final emotion in the room is always the same… realization.

Three questions to sit with before the week is out:

→ What is one thing you should stop doing this quarter?

→ What is one decision you must delegate, even if it feels uncomfortable?

→ What would you do with one extra day every week?

Courage in leadership doesn’t always look like bold action. Sometimes it looks like a conscious, deliberate stop.

What’s the one thing you’ll subtract this quarter? I’d love to hear it.

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Author:

Venkataraman Subramanyan is a Global Leadership Development Expert & Sales Coach. He is the Founder and CEO of Tripura Multinational. Venkat’s mission is to touch and transform a hundred million lives by 2025, and a billion lives by 2030. With over 30 years of experience, Venkat is passionate about 2 things – Leadership Transformation and Sales Acceleration. His trademarked deal qualification framework is licensed worldwide by organizations and filters over $3Billion in deals annually. He is an accredited member of the Forbes Coaches Council.

Tripura Multinational is a dynamic sales organization dedicated to empowering sales professionals and organizations to achieve unparalleled success. Originally established as a platform to address skill gaps in the sales industry, Tripura has evolved into a multi-faceted entity that offers comprehensive engagements for Sales Managers and Sales Leaders. Through the transformative power of Sales Coaching, Tripura enables sales organizations to elevate their performance from good to great and ultimately reach a world-class level. Our approach focuses on optimizing sales skills, management expertise, and leadership capabilities, helping clients plan more effectively, qualify leads better, orchestrate sales processes seamlessly, and expand their business with confidence. 

Our organisation is the trusted choice of market leaders across various industries and segments, relying on our expertise to elevate their performance to new heights. Recognized for our ability to enhance excellence, we are entrusted with the task of making the client’s best even better.

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